Alex is also noting how the younger generation experienced a brief window of being able to just *be* out without necessarily even needing to *come* out because acceptance was so great.

They note that generation’s absence.

And that things are moving backwards to a world those kids never grew up having to protect themselves against.

Alex Pacheco is talking about as a teenager being told that they and their girlfriend needed to dance together less because they’re in public, and there are children present! (And if you want to hold hands or kiss, do it in the bathroom.)

Same person organized a queer tango festival a year later. “It’s not about you; I have queer friends!” (Our gasts are collectively flabbered.)

Barbara from Buffalo didn’t know that you couldn’t learn to lead and follow at the same time, so she just did. The workshop needs another leader? Ok, she’s leading tonight.

She says she remembers being at a milonga and seeing a man who danced beautifully who she wanted to dance with. He said that he wouldn’t dance with her because he had seen her leading.

Queer tango has restarted in Portland, OR. Sandy isn’t advertising to the existing tango community at all.

I told her last night that I’m taking flyers to queer bars bc converting queer people to tango is easier than converting tango people to queerness.

José talked about the magic of discovering *queer* tango after years of dancing and trying to build community through @dcqueertango — which is where I came in.

I just raised my hand as one who, as Karen noted, nowadays we have people who are starting in queer tango, not starting in mainstream tango then finding or forming queer tango communities.

Two years ago a TikTok friend mentioned that queer tango existed, and so I went looking for it in my city. The first time I ever saw people dancing, it was a queer tango performance.

Around 2007, Augusto decided to create an open role tango championship, in contrast to the preexisting World Cup of Tango. He got judges from the big tango schools to give it some prestige.

It stopped after 5 years when the original changed to allow same gender couples.

Fabian Kipp says when he started dancing tango in Germany, tango felt backwards because ballroom dance already accepted same gender dancing.

Now Rodrigo is talking about the queer tango festival in Mexico. He had lived in Italy for a while and then moved back to Mexico when Mexico got marriage equality in 2010.

He ran a festival there for 10 years where instead of organizing special events, the local milongas to *became* queer milongas for the nights of the festival, resulting in all Mexican tangueros being familiar with queer tango.

Astrid says growing a queer tango community takes a while, but Berlin’s queer tango community is now somewhere around 150 people.

In @dcqueertango, I think we’re currently about 15.

A queer tango festival started in Germany in the early 2000s, and they caravanned from Berlin. She says it was mostly women because men’s queer tango was just getting started in Germany, and it wasn’t yet advertising to and pulling from other countries in Europe.

In 2005, she started teaching queer tango in Berlin. In 2010 she decided to start a festival in Berlin.