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**A. Rivera** @bloodravenlib@mas.to · 2d

In today's reminder why, if I am ever single again, I am going to become a hermit. Jeebus on a popsicle stick, so this IS a thing. Let me #SaveYouAClick: the left behind device is a hacker and surveillance tool, so dump it.

> ‘Take it to your garbage outside immediately’: Woman says you shouldn’t let dates leave cell phone chargers in your house. Here’s the scary reason why https://www.themarysue.com/phone-charger-cord-warning/

The Mary Sue · 2d‘Take it to your garbage outside immediately’: Woman says you shouldn’t let dates leave cell phone chargers in your house. Here’s the scary reason why One woman says if you're someone who likes to have fun and invite strangers to your home, you shouldn't let them leave a charger behind.

#tech #dating #relationships

**🅻🅸🅲🅴 ()** @alice@lgbtqia.space · 3d

🅻🅸🅲🅴 () @alice@lgbtqia.space

I just got dumped by the sweetest guy we went from unofficially dating to officially un-dating now there'll be no more cute hat ransom photos but he said I can have beanie visitation rights

I'm richer for the experience of knowing him

That photo of Alice in the caramel-colored beanie, wearing a powder-blue mask and strawberry earrings.

#Relationships #HatRansomPics #Mood

**PaulaToThePeople** @PaulaToThePeople@climatejustice.social · 5d

PaulaToThePeople @PaulaToThePeople@climatejustice.social

I had a really great #AroAce community evening today.

I learned about #RelationshipAnarchy and the #Smörgasbord and we discussed why people in amatonormative couple relationships, who turn from two "I"s into a "we" find it so hard to use "I-messages" in conflicts, but have no trouble using "you-accusations".

This pride month I want to learn more about different relationship types and possibilities and want to find a definition of "friendship" for myself.

Feel free to give me input.

#ace #asexuality #pride

**anna_lillith** @anna_lillith@mas.to · 6d

anna_lillith @anna_lillith@mas.to

Couples in satisfying relationships balance autonomy and a sense of togetherness by supporting each other’s individual dreams while also creating shared meaning as a couple.

~ Vienna Pharaon

#relationships #couples #ViennaPharaon

**Europe Says** @europesays@pubeurope.com · May 31

May 31

Europe Says @europesays@pubeurope.com

https://www.europesays.com/2124645/ 5 Lessons I Learned the Hard Way About Business Success #business #Entrepreneurs #Entrepreneurship #GrowingABusiness #GrowthStrategies #LEADERSHIP #RaisingCapital #relationships #StartingABusiness #success #SuccessStrategies

**Chery (Great Australian Pods)** @cheryanne@aus.social · May 31

May 31

Chery (Great Australian Pods) @cheryanne@aus.social

Teach Us Consent

Great Australian Pods Podcast Directory: https://www.greataustralianpods.com/teach-us-consent/

#GreatAusPods #AusPods #Podcast

**anna_lillith** @anna_lillith@mas.to · May 30

May 30

anna_lillith @anna_lillith@mas.to

The responsibility of love:
To keep another's heart safe.

~ Bridgett Devoue

#love #relationships

**Hannah Howe** @HannahHowe@toot.wales · May 30

May 30

Hannah Howe @HannahHowe@toot.wales

Thursday 30 May 1963

A petrol bomb was hurled through the window of a London betting shop last night. This is one of more than a dozen similar incidents over the past few months. Protection gangs are thought to be responsible.

#SocialHistory #History #Holidays

**A. Rivera** @bloodravenlib@mas.to · May 29

May 29

A. Rivera @bloodravenlib@mas.to

Today's ridiculous #ChampagneProblems and why, if I ever become single again, I am becoming a hermit.

> What Is a Social Media Prenup and Do You Need One? https://www.vice.com/en/article/what-is-a-social-media-prenup-and-do-you-need-one/

VICE · May 29What Is a Social Media Prenup and Do You Need One?By Sammi Caramela

#SocialMedia #relationships

**nullagent** @nullagent@partyon.xyz · May 29 *

May 29 *

nullagent @nullagent@partyon.xyz

So anyways, I'm homeless rn.

Love that for me

Venmo, cashapp, paypal $nullagent

#love #relationships #spring

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**nullagent** @nullagent@partyon.xyz · May 28

May 28

nullagent @nullagent@partyon.xyz

#MutualAidRequest #DSA #Seattle

Please let Seattle DSA know if you approve or disapprove of their organization evicting Black organizers in the dead of night.

Email:

grievances@seattledsa.org

#socialism #activism #relationships

Continued thread

**nullagent** @nullagent@partyon.xyz · May 28

May 28

nullagent @nullagent@partyon.xyz

#MutualAidRequest

I obviously need significant legal help, on top of support to quickly secure safe stable housing.

I would like to first and foremost get a family law lawyer for myself. (there are no public defenders for civil DVPO disputes)

Second, I will be considering legal redress against Seattle DSA and/or individual members for their over the top eviction antics.

Please donate in whatever way suites you:

cashapp/venmo/paypal: $nullagent

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#relationships

**earthling** @appassionato@mastodon.social · May 28

May 28

earthling @appassionato@mastodon.social

It's Attachment by Annette Kussin, 2020

How do we make sense of our relationships—successes and failures, preferences and challenges, past and present. And after we make sense of them all—what do we do to increase the successes that we are striving to attain.

@bookstodon
#books
#nonfiction
#attachment
#relationships

In It's Attachment Kussin offers us a comprehensive overview of this dominant theory of human development and relationships in a way that gives us both understanding and practical ideas for constructive changes. She shows us the central features of the main attachment patterns that are present throughout childhood and adulthood as well as clear suggestions for how we might identify what pattern characterizes our own life. From there, her book provides practical insights into how our attachment pattern is central in our choosing a partner and being a parent. It also explores how we might change our pattern toward one that provides the greatest likelihood for developing an autonomous sense of self and satisfying reciprocal relationships.

**proudnb** @proudnb@todon.nl · May 28

May 28

proudnb @proudnb@todon.nl

There is a lot of emphasis placed on pursuing and being in romantic relationships even for nonbinary people.

But you are important as a nonbinary person regardless of your relationship status.

You're valuable to your community and yourself just as you are.

#NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinaryPride #NonBinary

**anna_lillith** @anna_lillith@mas.to · May 25 *

May 25 *

anna_lillith @anna_lillith@mas.to

Examples of what secure attachment looks like relationally

- I can bring this up, and it will be okay.
- I can bring this up, and I am still safe.
- I can bring this up, and you still love me.
- I can bring this up, and you still choose me.
- I can bring this up, and you will self-reflect.
- When I struggle, I can bring it to you.
- When we struggle, I know we’ll get through it.

~ Vienna Pharaon

#ViennaPharaon #SecureAttachment #relationships

**Dining & Cooking** @dnc@vive.im · May 25

May 25

Dining & Cooking @dnc@vive.im

He Thinks Cooking For Dishwashing Is A Fair Trade, But His Partner Has A Different Trade-Off In Mind » TwistedSifter https://www.diningandcooking.com/2088728/he-thinks-cooking-for-dishwashing-is-a-fair-trade-but-his-partner-has-a-different-trade-off-in-mind-twistedsifter/ #aita #chores #Cooking #food #money #picture #reddit #relationships #top

**Bridge&Tunnel Jeff** @jf_718@mas.to · May 21 *

May 21 *

Bridge&Tunnel Jeff @jf_718@mas.to

Boundaries and rules, by Generic Art Dad

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ZTmioO0TXls

YouTubeDo you know the difference between a boundary & rule? (Neither are bad. It’s about how they’re used)By GenericArtDad

#boundaries #rules #relationships

**Paul-Vincent Roll (he/him)** @paul@whisper.tf · May 20 *

May 20 *

Paul-Vincent Roll (he/him) @paul@whisper.tf

Just submitted my first iOS app to TestFlight #polyamory #monogamy #relationships #iosdev #swiftui #swift

EDIT: Beta is available! https://testflight.apple.com/join/4drmtcfm (2nd version is already submitted this one has some visual bugs)

Here's an alt text for Mastodon that effectively describes this image:
"Screenshot of a mobile app called 'Relationship Menu'. The interface shows a menu management system for creating relationship agreements. At the top is a banner with the title and tagline 'Create unique relationship agreements, free from traditional expectations.' Below this is a section titled 'Your Menus' showing one existing menu called 'Test & Test 2' that was last edited today. The 'Create New Menu' section displays two template options: 'Romantic/Sexual' (with 22 categories and 169 items) and 'Empty'. Navigation tabs for 'Menus' and 'About' appear at the bottom of the screen.

"Screenshot of the 'New Menu' creation page in the Relationship Menu app. The screen shows the 'Romantic/Sexual' template selected (with 22 categories and 169 items), indicated by a pink banner with a heart icon. Below is a 'People' section where users can add participants to the relationship agreement, currently showing placeholder fields for 'Person 1's name' and 'Person 2's name', both with delete options. A blue 'Create Menu' button appears at the bottom, with text underneath noting 'Leave empty for Anonymous'. A 'Cancel' option is available in the top left corner.

Screenshot of a relationship agreement titled 'Test 1 & Test 2' in the Relationship Menu app, showing the Communication section. Items are color-coded by status: 'Daily or frequent check ins' (yellow/question mark), 'Texting' (blue/exclamation point), 'Phone/video calls' (red/X mark), 'Discussing work and hobbies' (green/checkmark), and 'Discussing family, partners, relationships' (gray/dash). Additional items appear below with tap icons, including 'Discussing politics and current events', 'Ability to express disagreements or hurt feelings', 'Ability to address and resolve conflict', and 'Relationship meetings (e.g. R.A.D.A.R.)'. Navigation options include 'Close', 'Edit', and a share button at the top of the screen.

"Screenshot of the 'Texting' details page from the 'Test 1 & Test 2' relationship agreement in the Relationship Menu app. The modal overlay shows that 'Texting' has been classified as a 'Must' (marked with a blue exclamation point), with the explanation 'This is essential; it's a non-negotiable need or preference.' Below this is a 'Notes' section containing the text 'Here are some notes on what we agreed on!' In the background, the main agreement page is visible showing the Communication section with items including 'Daily or frequent check ins' (yellow/question mark), 'Texting' (blue/exclamation point), and 'Phone/video calls' (red/X mark).

**Pachacutec** @Pachacutec@union.place · May 20

May 20

Pachacutec @Pachacutec@union.place

The Counter Slop Revolution

"I believe, purely by observation though not with hard data, that a counter movement against constant stimulation and toward greater authenticity, depth, and substance is underway, below and away from the braying social media bullhorns and the firehoses of emotional manipulation aimed at us all by mega tech corporations."

#AI #SocialMedia #culture #psychology #Relationships

http://www.ajschuler.com/blog/the-counter-slop-revolution

Tuning InThe Counter Slop Revolution — Tuning InI believe, purely by observation though not with hard data, that a counter movement against constant stimulation and toward greater authenticity, depth, and substance is underway, below and away from the braying social media bullhorns and the firehoses of emotional manipulation aimed at us all by me