I have a new idea, and I want your help to spread it. We are in need of something positive for our community. Something reminding us of what makes us who we are.
It's for tomorrow, really, but I want us to prep tonight so we're ready for it tomorrow.
Here's your prep work: think of something in your weekend that gave you gender euphoria. Anything. Whatever made you glad you are who you are, whatever gender or genders or lack of gender you are.
Now, initially, I'm thinking of calling this #TransGEM , for Trans Gender Euphoria Mondays. But if it catches on, I want there to be a bigger version of it, just called #GEM, which has room for anyone to post their Gender Euphoria Moments, whatever and whenever their (lack of) gender(s) brought them. But let's build the smaller version first, get people in the habit.
Can be something tiny. "I saw her in the mirror today for a moment."
"I found my first facial hair Saturday morning on my way to shul."
"Someone didn't know how to gender me yesterday!"
Could be something huge. Whatever. Just spread your joy, once a week.
We aren't defined by our suffering. Let us define ourselves by our joy. Let them know us for that, if nothing else. Let us all see what a huge range of experiences can bring this kind of joy to a huge range of people.
Boosts encouraged. Translation and adoption by other language communities too!