marc, trudy dinks<p>What other ways of talking about hurt and harm fall into disuse when it’s all about boundaries?</p><p>If intimacy means living with our interdependence, our entanglement in other selves, might a fixation on boundaries be one part of what has us stuck in alienation?</p><p>If care has become as scarce as a sky in which you can see the Milky Way, is accelerating our separateness by fortifying our boundaries really the answer we need?</p><p>If other people’s needs are often unfulfillable and intolerable, can it really be true that we’d just be better off without other people?</p><p>Oh yeah, and who’s benefiting from all this boundaries advice, anyway?</p><p><a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/therapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>therapy</span></a> <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/psychoanalysis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>psychoanalysis</span></a> <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/capitalism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>capitalism</span></a></p>